A Message About Relationships
Don’t date to kill time — date to build life.
Between 18-25, many young men fall into meaningless flings that waste time and emotions. Relationships at this stage should teach you responsibility, not just pleasure.
1. Don’t Play with Hearts
Every woman you meet is someone’s daughter, sister, or future wife. Handle her heart with care. If you’re not ready for commitment, be honest. Games create trauma — not men.
2. Choose Values Over Looks
Yes, beauty matters. But character outlasts curves. Look for a woman who pushes you to grow, not just one who looks good on Instagram.
3. Communicate Clearly
Don’t ghost. Don’t lie. Don’t mislead. If it’s not working, say so with respect. If it is working, nurture it with presence, not promises.
4. Grow Together, Not Apart
Good relationships help you evolve. You’ll both make mistakes — what matters is how you work through them. Don’t expect perfection. Invest in progress.
“The right partner doesn’t complete you — they challenge you to complete yourself.”
5. Sex Isn’t Proof of Love
Don’t confuse passion with purpose. If the relationship is only physical, it will collapse when emotions or pressure rise. Build something deeper — or don’t build at all.
“Temporary love creates permanent pain. Choose wisely, love wisely.”
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