Focus on Growth, Not Approval – The Story of George McLaurin

In 1948, George McLaurin broke barriers as the first Black man admitted to the University of Oklahoma. But rather than being welcomed, he was isolated — forced to sit alone in a corner, away from white students. Despite being surrounded by cold stares and silence, he didn’t let rejection define him.

Instead of pleading for acceptance, he channeled his focus inward — into excellence. Through unmatched dedication, George turned his isolation into an opportunity to rise.

“Some colleagues would look at me like I was an animal... no one would give me a word. The teachers seemed like they were not even there for me. But I devoted myself so much that afterwards, they began to look for me to give them explanations and to clear their questions.” — George McLaurin

That same man who was once shunned eventually became one of the top three students in the university. The very people who ignored him now sought his help.

Lesson: Forcing yourself to be accepted by people is a waste of time. Focus on adding value to yourself — and people will come looking for you.

Focus on Growth, Not Approval – The Story of George McLaurin